Love of the Game Series
This Series is a mix of things, it is about ice hockey, a sport I personally love, it is about being different not straight, not white and prime proper christian boy and girls, it's about alternate lifestyles I guess what some call BDSM and I call it finding the confidence in being true to yourself and living your life for you.
It is about the still very macho attitude that exists within the sports industry, where anything but straight is non acceptable and where many men and women feel like they can't be true to who they are unless they are willing to forfeit their careers. How do we overcome it? Who's responsibility is it that these changes? What rights do sportsmen and women have to live their lives as they please?
This series will not give you the traditional BDSM experience you get in a lot of other books, because they are filled with sex, scenes and dungeons. You'll see very little of that here, because I am under the firm belief that BDSM, as well as LGBT literature in general, is over-sexualized. Again, personal observation but I think alternate lifestyles is a better wording for the commonly used BDSM because it is not one fit all and I also believe that D/S relationships in the core of things are about everything but sex. The sex is just a big bonus but the depth is something else, and that is what interests me. Sex is easy, inflicting pain is "easy", taking pain is fairly easy too (no matter if it is physical or emotional pain) but to get to the depth of connection that D/S relationship are based on takes a lot of effort and time. And it has nothing to do with sex, pain, pleasure, at least not to begin with, foremost it has to do with trust.
This is what the Love of the Game Series is about men and women who share D/S relationships focusing on what creates that deep down, long lasting connection.
It is about the still very macho attitude that exists within the sports industry, where anything but straight is non acceptable and where many men and women feel like they can't be true to who they are unless they are willing to forfeit their careers. How do we overcome it? Who's responsibility is it that these changes? What rights do sportsmen and women have to live their lives as they please?
This series will not give you the traditional BDSM experience you get in a lot of other books, because they are filled with sex, scenes and dungeons. You'll see very little of that here, because I am under the firm belief that BDSM, as well as LGBT literature in general, is over-sexualized. Again, personal observation but I think alternate lifestyles is a better wording for the commonly used BDSM because it is not one fit all and I also believe that D/S relationships in the core of things are about everything but sex. The sex is just a big bonus but the depth is something else, and that is what interests me. Sex is easy, inflicting pain is "easy", taking pain is fairly easy too (no matter if it is physical or emotional pain) but to get to the depth of connection that D/S relationship are based on takes a lot of effort and time. And it has nothing to do with sex, pain, pleasure, at least not to begin with, foremost it has to do with trust.
This is what the Love of the Game Series is about men and women who share D/S relationships focusing on what creates that deep down, long lasting connection.
